3 MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT GETTING MARRIED IN YOUR 20s | DIARY OF AN ABUJA MOM

September 12, 2017
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Anyways, So today I decided to share some misconceptions about getting married in your early 20s. I would also appreciate it, if you guys let me know below what other misconceptions you know and also share your experiences.  


3 big misconceptions about getting married in your 20s
So, over the course marriage, I have been married for 5 years. Talked about it here and did small life update
             

 I’ve heard a lot from people, especially over sabi aunties to I too know people in general both online and people I know personally. In fact ill give you some real life scenarios. I’m a bit disturbed about this mindset and I thought I should share my thoughts here  so i can also know what you guys think about this..

1. You should get pregnant one night after.

So i can remember someone asking me why i haven't taken in as she put it. and how my friend angrily replied her that can't she see that i'm pregnant. Now that's a general question they ask most married people which is annoying but when you emphasize the "you are young thingy" and how you should be very fertile and take in immediately. It is amusing and a joke to me. Like you are God or your work is just to be monitoring sombori. monitoring spirit. weldone.

2.  You should have more kids.


Chai, se me here planning my life how i will have a particular of kids and someone is here telling that i should have like 7 kids or every 9 months, i should be pregnant. it is invasion of privacy to me. How can you tell me seriously that because of my age, i should have more children because i don't have any other thing to do but have kids. One thing I know for sure is that having kids is a choice, and you can choose to have one or more kids. I think one of the biggest misconceptions about being a young wife is that people want to make choices for you without caring about your opinions. That mindset needs to be abolished. 

3. You can't last in marriage.

I think sisiyemmie of sis yemmie blog did a post  where she talked about how it's best to get married in your 30s and i counter did a post  and a video here
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 Let me know your thoughts.

I can remember always seeing movies where if you marry a younger woman, she will finish all your money and won't know how to cook or take care of a family. Like it was everywhere. I even had to ask hubby if i'm like that and he said "no" and i asked him why do people always make it look like we are all the same. It's just like saying all men are cheats. Are they all, really?  In fact watch the video, Listen to my opinion and let me yours.
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