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March 11, 2018

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February 22, 2018
I don't know why i felt like they were talking to me,  I was feeling the movie in my bone marrow. It was so real for me. Apart from THOR and the AVENGERS this is the only super hero movie i have seen so far and it realed with me mostly because of the cultural representation from all over Africa. So this review is just my thoughts and i hope you enjoy reading.
My outfit of the night

We were excited about the movie and when the ticket charge was 5000, 2500 each unto new movie things, we didn't complain too much even though in our bone marrow it was paining us small small but hey who doesn't want to go to WAKANDA right. All in all, the ticket was much but for a movie showcasing our strength like that. I'll pay.


The showcasing of our culture and heritage was superb. The producers, directors, and all the people of WAKANDA head over correct. They showcased different tribes of Africa and i just enjoyed how mostly slick the Senegalese and KENTE attires the king wore were cool. I was just feeling hyped. I can imagine watching this movie in an WESTERN country, I for tie wrapper go there with madam kofo gele, serious one. They must know say we don show.

Ha,the way this WAKANDA people  showcased women for there, I'm so here for it. so sexy, intelligent, black, gorgeous, strong. This people that made this movie, eez like you are feminist o. I loved it so much, That general, her strenght, her loyalty, her soul was just too intense for me.

The show of love between  king T'CHALA and Nakia the spy. I love love stories and happy ending and i love that even in crisis, he still had eyes for her and at the end, they kissed.

This guy must be Nigerian, his character just reminds me of us. H e real savage and his expressions are epic.


The villian, which was his cousin, to me he didnt fit the role, i feel like Klaue, should have been it, They should have made his role more complicated. He was too easy to kill or maybe his cousin's story line wasnt well planned. I dont know but i dint like him as a villian like he didnt fit the part.

The End of the story was too clichΓ©. Was no more interesting for me like the beginning. I had goose bumps. serious ones.

That elder guy with a big button mouthfrom lupita nyong's tribe

irritated me, sorry but he really did.

 But all in all, i enjoyed it sha and it made I and hubby spend some alone time. so win win.

Have you watched black panther?
Who was your favourite character?
what did you or didn't like about the movie?

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February 20, 2018

Hello dams, Happy Monday.  Today's post is on how we can save as moms and wives, Money is not easy to get these days and anyway you can save if not for anyone but yourself, we have to do it. So these are my tips and i hope you find them helpful.

PLAN:  This is really easy but not easy. I was a victim to this where I just spend without any plan and by the end of the day, I am complaining like person follow me chop the money. So planning is necessary. You can do this by writing down a list of what you want and breaking them down into most important to least important. That way you can plan your cash.

BUY IN BULK: For mums like me who it annoys to buy 5 pieces of plantain for 500 naira  while you can buy a bunch of over 20 pieces for 800-1200. Please just be buying in bulk especially if you have  light in this our naija. This saves you a lot of bucks and reduces stress. If you are in Abuja.These are MARKETS YOU CAN BUY CHEAP FOODSTUFFS IN ABUJA

RE SELL: Ah is this important someone may ask. it is o. Can you imagine something of say 50k like car seat or swing and after a year you don't have use for it and you will now leave it and after a while it will now spoil. Please sell it. somebody need it and you need money!!!.  OLX, JIJI  and co are great platforms to make such things easy for us (i use OLX). So don't waste your things and it will give you extra cash even though you will sell it for a lower price. ( at least it is better than nothing)

DO IT YOURSELF: There is a wall decor, i did by my self and put it in the entrance of my house and the feed back was  great when it was new and i did it as a newbie without having and idea. Instead of buying say wall decor why not do it your self. It helps you save cash and gives you satisfaction. Yummymumlife and BYTONYE are  also great Nigerian DIY BLOGGERS. So check them out for tips .

DO THE NECESSARY: Just like planning. don't be like my before self that will just be buying and doing things unnecessarily. Haba, i can buy 5 hair products that i may not use in months just because cash dey my hand., So it is important to plan and then do the necessary things.

USE ALTERNATIVES: Alternative here means, For me i have been buying this fine sponge for place and the role is 1000 naira for years but growing up my mum used to cut up garri bag and we used to feel like she was too local. Now i do same cause that sponge is dang expensive and doesn't last at all. while my garri bag sponge is lasting and it has saved me 1000, i can put in other things. This goes for a lot of things like HOW TO THRIFT SHOP FOR YOUR BABY GIRL . Just figure out which ones needs to go so you can bring in alternatives.
this fabulous purse was thrifted

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February 19, 2018

So I just did this video to help new moms who are just worried about having kids in Nigeria. this are the off things to expect. They may happen, they may not but i felt like i should give you a heads up. This is solely my opinion and if you are not comfortable with it. Please don't watch and move on to the next video.

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February 13, 2018

OMG, I'm so excited . My first vlog is up. it was not a easy something for me o cause sometimes i just forget to record and hubby was mostly shy so i couldn't record so much and i didn't know how to compile it to make it interesting. So if you don't know yet. I'm a mom and wife living in Abuja with my family and i'll love you meet us and I'm hoping you enjoy this video. My fave moment was IFe discussing with the sales person at the supermarket and jina dancing in PEP Store. ( she is never shy)

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February 08, 2018

So I'm having this 8 days of val's series in which i will be posting everyday till vals. So I'm hoping i live up to the task. This post is in collab with AFRIKANRISING.COM , So I'm opening this series with this post just cause I feel like we always mistakenly do some things that really make things dry on valentine day and somehow we blame our hubby for it. Now I'm not about the everyday is vals day BS cause i feel like people that put that day aside have brian so don't come for me. I'm a lover girl and love the specialness, val's day have. so lets get to it. Don't foget to check out my post 5 ACCESORIES IDEAS TO MOM SLAY THIS VALENTINE
“There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved.”

Don't make it about the family: you have loved your kids from birth (after all there is children's day, so children on that day) till now so one day every year for you and hubby isn't asking for too much. Its a lovers day people, Luvaaaaaa's day so it's not children's day, family day or your day, it for both of you. Make it as memorable as possible. 

Be intentional in  your plan: It can be overwhelming but whatever plan you have make sure it reeks of love. whether it's staying in or going out. Don't come and be doing mama ma things or just complaining about your prep. ..

Make do with what you have. AH this is important o. It's not a do or die affair. You mustn't buy new clothes or spend so much. What ever your pocket says follow it. After all it's one day. After that day don't come and borrow money form me o. lol. You can just plan a date night where you stay in and play games, tell each other how much you love them and have lots of sex or just out. Movies are included too. But let your pocket advise you.

Make something special especially if you are staying in. Not the norm, for my Nigerian beauties, make those things you would normally go out to eat or better still buy them and organise them in such a manner that it looks sumptuous and appealing. A lot of places now in Abuja are doing sales on special food orders. do your research or better still learn recipes form FOODACE or DOONEY'S KITCHEN 

Be sexy, sweet, sensual, flirty, cuddly, risque, slinky cause at the end of the day, you may just be having sex. But above all be you with an intention to make your day special...

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February 06, 2018

HEY damsels . How are y'all doing so today's post is dear to my heart just because i have seen and i have heard and i have also conquered. you feel me.πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

SO today's post is just to encourage as well as help you slay this val's day with your hubby or your bae. I hear especially women make it look like as soon as you are married then everything ends. My dear its doesn't, to me it's the beginning of a new phase. Your husbands are complaining o. I hear things like my wife used to be so so and so but now she only just ties wrapper, leave her hair haggard and doesn't even bath for days and it is heart breaking that young girls have join the gang. But from today it will stop o, no buts or later so read to the end.

Your presentation matter alot, how you look, carry yoiur self and talk. People that know me personally know i love to look my best but thats me but for those of us that it doesnt come naturally to, it's time to slay your game up. make sure you thank me later.

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So my work now is to give you ideas that can help you slay that day and make your hubby want you more and more and more. winks.

This type of  statement  earring can make to fulfill your cravings. With this earring you can be assured that your work in the other room must happen and i love how big it is and how the twisting is just exceptional. With this who needs a neck piece.

These ones are just a must have. You know that feeling when you didnt want to wear a wrist watch but your hands are bare so you need some thing really fancy but classy. Then go with something like this. You can never do wrong with it. So you can wear this without a wrist watch but still feel fabulous. 

 Who said i don't have eyes for better thing. This was actually thrifted and i love love love but with a purse like this, the way your head will be swelling eh. In your mind all the girls are jealousliseeing you. But really you need a very good clutch to make your val's day outfit complete.

And of course a wristwatch to make sure you are just on time for dinner, movies, and the main thing. Very essential and i like them big cause i feel like, on their own they are making heavy statements.

And lastly a rose to feel special. Oh how i love love and valentine day. I know some people that will low key say everyday is val's day but will still want some special treatment on val's day.

Do you love valentine day? 

what was your fave piece here? 

Todays bible quote

Yes, you have waited for too long for your miracle! That doesnt disprove the fact that God is good! He's never too late; and he knows the right time to act! Can you still trust him.

Listening to: Shaggy's "It wasn't me"
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January 31, 2018
Hello damsels, I hope you all are having a wonderful week. This past weekend was really fun for me because I spent it with the family. eating pizza, having cokes/Heineken and some Chocolate ice cream at Figarros pizza, Ruby;s center, Wuse 2, Abuja. I'm I the only one that loves chocolate ice cream.?


The place was neat, reception was fabulous and i will recommend Pepperoni pizza and their chicken and chips.  So overall my weekend was cool but my week is kind of slow but very steady so I thank God. 

My phone got spoilt this past week and I tried fixing it to no avail but those guys at Banex in WUSE 2, do they even know how to do their jobs. Imagine like you have to take your phone two to three times because it wouldn't work and they will still collect lots of money from you. I'm just thankful to God and hubby that i got a new  and better one so I'm hoping I won't have such issues again.

Now, for the real reason of this post.  Cantu haircare now have hair products for kids with textured hair.  I’ve never used Cantu beauty before so this was really the first product I and jina ever tried. The first reason was the fear of it being too pricey and what if I buy, will I be able to continue. SO this held me back until one day I was shopping at FAXX super market and saw this product and the price was very affordable and I'm like whatttttt!!!!. See speed buying o. I can not not buy now and it will now increase or someone will now tell them that it is normally expensive and they will change it asap.


So I posted a picture of Jina on my INSTAGRAM and some of you sent me Dms about her hair, what i use, where to buy and all that so I'm giving you all the tea and hoping you enjoy the product as much as i have. Before using the cantu beauty product, i have been using natural shea butter on her hair and i notice d that it was drying out her hair and i wasn't really seeing any improvement ( maybe there was, but i didn't just see.) except on her wash day so i had to change to cantu beauty kids care leave in conditioner. 

The first thing I noticed is  the packaging, which i love love. That burnt orange thingy is really cool to me and it's something I can recycle. 
The smell is so nice, it smelt so nice even hubby loved it on my hair. 
The feel on the hand is pretty smooth and soft.
You have to mix it well into the hair or it will give you white patches
When applied to the hair,. It detangles the hair and leaves it soft and healthy
Even after drying out, the hair is still soft and bouncy
So the "how to use this  product" is on the body of the product but you can switch it up and see how it will work for you and your child. 

The steps i use:

After washing her hair, I apply this and gently detangle her hair with my fingers then with a comb.
I twist her hair and cover it with a not so original satin bonnet
I allow to sit for as long as she doesn't remember it.
I style to my desired style.
I use it for my sons hair too.
So it's simple and it really works.

If you would like to see a video of how i use it step by step, please let me know in the comment section.
Have you tried this product before
what other cantu beauty hair products have you tried?
What other products have you used for your baby's hair and would you recommend them.

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January 25, 2018

So I have been trying to write this post since December of 2017 but laziness no gree me. I have been having a bad week but I just finally let God take control and i'll say its getting better. 
Have you read my first hilarious post of the year on 5 THINGS EVERY NIGERIAN MOM OF BOYS CAN RELATE TO I laughed so hard after reading it and i know you will too and to all my thrifters who just want to spend a little change but get really cool things for their kids then check this out  HOW TO THRIFT SHOP FOR YOUR BABY GIRL and i also wrote a random post regarding me and my pepper them lips. Click HERE to read. 
I miss you tube but i feel like I'm not  ready ready yet. It's one thing to be ready but another to be ready ready. what do you guys think? 
So my post today is just basically talking about harmattan from my own point of view. I thought i hated harmattan until i came to ABUJA . This place dry sha and very annoying. See me that used to have soft feet now i can boast of one kind strong and scaly feet and my stingy side can not think of spending #2500 for ordinary leg. so far, there is Blue seal, I am good to go and i can also do it my self. Would you like a post on that?. 
This a post which i did in 2016 on 4 SKIN CARE GUIDES FOR YOUR KIDS THIS HAMATTAN SEASON so this is like an updated post. 
So this weather comes with a lot of annoying ness from cracked lips to dry skin to stuffy nose to dried and scaly feet to dried out hair to dry plates (if you mistakenly keep them more than 1 minute in the sink). It can really be so frustrating cause the weather is so drying and so cold, you just have to figure out a way to keep yourself warm. 

These are a few tips i use for I and my family .

Drink lots of water : This one is a no go area in my house because on a normal day, my kids are fishes, they love water so much like give them all the drinks and juices in this world and they will still say mom, we need water. So it is very essential for this weather cause that throat dryness is real and we are not playing with that. Next thing now you want to talk to hubby and your voice is croaky like frog and in your mind you are trying to be romantic... nope!!!! drink water girl.  and also add fruits like water melon and oranges to your diet. 
Moisturizers, petroleum jelly and balms: Important!!!! Can be used for skin and lips. This helps moisturizes their lips and my son's lips cracks up big time(he got it from his dad, no tell am o) and i have to always put lots of petroleum jelly on it and now he does it himself cause even him don't play like that and I'm super proud of him.  So what i do exactly to to make sure i add their body cream (jergens) to the Vaseline and i don't dry out their skin  ( i dab) so it dries with the moisturizer and helps keep them soft then i apply Mentholatum to help with the heat they need. . I can remember growing up , we always traveled to villa for Christmas and we go and swim in our lake and come out without rubbing anything and we will now be looking like
....... My point is always moisturize them. 

TAKE  SUPPLEMENTS : For now i'm giving them multi vitamins and vitamins just because the weather is harsh and that Jina's school childrens can fly things around . Eh, today, it's catarrh, tomorrow it's cough. So i try to stay ahead of them even though sometimes it catches her and then she passes to her brother.. So these supplements helps at least to reduce their chances of catching all the things in the air and helps boost their immune system. 
Clothing : Very important. I make sure they are well covered especially at night and in the morning. cause the cold can just be too much. I wear them cardigans, sleep suits and still cover them with a duvet at night and i go extra to put on the heat in my car while taking Jina to school. But if you are going out with the kids, just put in an extra light clothe cause the weather gets hot during the day and dry and don't forget to wear socks to prevent dry and scaly feet. Oga won't like it at all.  
HAIR CARE  : I protect our hair from dryness by wearing a hair bonnet ( which i think is not the original original one, like its original china). For jina i wrap her hair and tuck the ends in to prevent breakage and also moisturize every morning. Even my son too. I moisturize his hair cause when it's dry, it doesn't look Good at all. 

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I'm listening to Akon's "DON'T MATTER" and Beyonce's "JEALOUS"


January 22, 2018

Heloo damsels.... So today I"ll be recognizing our moms out here who are putting in all the work for our darling kids. It's not easy o. I must say, any body that tells you it is is a bloody liar.

So I'm sure most moms of boys can relate to this post. You know how when you deliver and you "call someone to tell the great news and they ask you wetin you born? and you are like "BOY" and you hear things like "weldone o"." una don try". "Ah, nah now you come" and I'm like what the f*** and now it's as if i have made it my life goal to educate people on the importance of a female child sometimes i get the "what the f*** is this one even saying' and sometimes some pretend to understand and you can see that look of " DEY THERE MAKE PANT DEY WEAR YOU" or " YOU GET LUCK SAY YOU BORN BOY, IF NOT, YOU FOR KNOW WHERE YOUR MOUTH DEY WINE DEY GO" 

Meanwhile, this post is not to say which one is better or to throw shade, It's just to have fun and somehow have a good laugh.


When people start hailing your husband, Like "bros you fire well"....ahah which kin talk is that so there is a seperate firing for boy and girl. I can remember when i was already pregnant but i haven't told my parents yet and my mom sent me a text one cozy night to tell me the style i should do to have a baby boy. I and hubby laughed loud and till today, he thinks my parents are just firers.

Every body starts telling you how you are now a real wife of the family( na now you done) what does that even mean. So i no done before.

After all the i have born labor jubilation and the second thing that comes to mind is the pain of circumcision. Is it just me but i almost had high blood pressure thinking about it from the day the scan came out BOY. after screaming my lungs out at ECHO SCAN at Garki, i realized my self and was like. " baby (me talking to hubby) so we will now do him circumcision. I couldn't bear it and on that day, i cried like i was the one going through the pain. I nearly didn't go through with it until i saw how his peepee looked and then i fainted , woke up and gave up.

When your son is not as rough as the way you hear stories of boys and you are like he might be a sissy. Most times when women make this comment like, i want him to be a manly man. I'm like the struggle is real.

And when you see your boy playing around or with a cute girl and you are like, Go Ife, Go Ife Go Ife. but if it's your girl, you will turn to monitoring spirit/detective/prayer warrior. ( I do that for Jina)

Can you relate to any of these. Let me know if you enjoyed reading this post and add yours too if you have any.  Don't forget to comment, share and subscribe. I love you for reading and till my next post



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